Happy Father’s Day
Allow me to start by wishing all of our Dads, Step-dads, Granddads, etc a Happy Father’s Day today. Although there are a number of limits on the Father’s Day activities this year, I do hope that you get to enjoy some quality time with your family and you have time to reflect upon the critical role that you play in your child’s life.
According to Dads4Kids, fatherlessness is a growing problem in Australia and the western world. Whether caused by divorce, broken families, drug or alcohol addiction, irresponsible men or by deliberate single parenting, more and more children grow up without fathers. Father absence, whether physically or emotionally, has been shown to be a major disadvantage to the wellbeing of children. No doubt it would be equally so for children without mothers, but the point of mentioning it here is to underline the important role we all play as fathers. We should not underestimate how being a good father contributes to a child’s emotional and physical wellbeing. It is worth acknowledging and celebrating our dads.
Have you found a LFH groove?
At school, this past week has felt a little more routine than the previous 3 weeks of LFH. I’m not sure if it has felt that way in your home or whether you are struggling to find a groove? Routine can sometimes be viewed negatively (eg it feels like Groundhog Day) but at the moment from the families I’ve spoken with there are lots of parents saying that ‘we have found a routine that’s working for us’. Some start the day with a walk before getting down to work, some follow the school timetable with children starting work at 9:00am in their home and pause for breaks similar to how they would if they were at school, some take a family bike ride just after lunch. Whatever your preference is, I think the families that appear to be feeling a little more at ease with LFH are those that have found a routine or a groove that works for them. There are numerous studies that highlight the health benefits to establishing a routine. Routines help to reduce stress and provide a sense of calm and control. If you are feeling stressed and anxious at present, perhaps a good starting point to address it is to look at your current routines. There may be better articles out there, but I came across a short and easy to read one here that you might find helpful.
Where to from here
As things currently stand, we remain under the stay at home orders until midnight on Friday 10 September with learning from home to continue next week. We will need to await the health advice and announcements from the government with respect to the final week of Term 3, but to me it seems likely that we will remain learning from home for Week 10 as well. Beyond that is anyone’s guess. Each week, principals across the state participate in a state-wide briefing led by the Secretary of the Department. In this week’s briefing, we learned that under the staged return to school commencing on 25 October, that in addition to the requirements for all staff to be vaccinated, canteen supervisors, volunteers, contractors, scripture and ethics teachers and any other adults working with children on school sites will also be required to provide proof of their full vaccination prior to commencing work in the school. I share this with you now, as it will have implications for many of you that work or volunteer in our school.
Paralympics
How good are the Paralympics? The whole nation has been caught up in the goal ball phenomenon but also in the character, determination and skill of the athletes. I really enjoyed in Thursday night’s coverage the footage of the post-race marriage proposal by Cape Verde guide Manuel Antonio Vaz da Veiga to his visually impaired 200m sprinter girlfriend Pereira Semedo. Thankfully, she said yes and then proceeded to flash her engagement ring to the cameras as fans around the world marvelled at another truly magical moment in Tokyo. Dylan Alcott’s class as both a person and as a representative of our country continues to shine on the international stage. We are so fortunate to have so many great role models for our children to look up to and aspire to be like.
Hope you are staying well. Have a great week.
David Holland